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Friday, September 05, 2003
enjoy your life!
i was overwhelmed with grief when i heard my friend's story about how he broke up with his girlfriend. it brought me back to my own ending-relationship memories which were of course belong to those unhappy parts of my life. saying goodbye to someone who is already very close to us, who has become a part of our life, who has filled up our days with his company ... is not easy at all. but hey, for each door closing, another reopens. for each dying relationship, another will be sparked. just be prepared to flourish your new love.
on a happier note, my friend called me this morning just to tell me that only now when he has married that he could understand and support my view on marriage issues. *i have this opinion that i don't have to marry someone only because it's already the time or because it's simply the goal of everyone's life. for me, marry or not, i believe i can still enjoy my life. if i don't see marriage as a promising new life, why rush to make the commitment?* the marriage life opened my friend's mind that wedding is not the answer to have a happier life. *seee, i told u before!* so he gave me this little advise : enjoy life. whatever u're doing, doing it with fun. don't put over expectation on someone and don't expect too much so u'll never get disappointed. appreciate the blessings u have and anything good happens in your life.
yap, that's the key - ENJOY YOUR LIFE! have a positive thinking on everything. joy and have fun! god loves us so much that he presents us with so many beautiful things and sends us so many kind people around us as his angels. they are people who have touched us in a special way, changed us, and inspired us so deeply. i have a long list myself... my ex who cares enough to call; my 'next-door' friend who picked me up yesterday, brought me the dinner and 'entertained' me in his home *even in annoying ways sometimes*; my close male friend who called at midnight just to ask me how i'm doing; my other close female friend who sent me "morning sms" today - how's your life? *aren't those all sooo sweet?*
to all of you who have surfed your way to this page, i wish you a chance to be happy, to smile, to have a sincere love, and to have angels on your side.
things don't end, they only beginand to make an endingis to make a beginning
stelly @ 1:08 PM
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